Tuesday, September 7, 2010

1st BLOG in COMM1 (EXAMPLE)

 FRIENDS: TRUSTWORTHY OR NOT?

   "No man is an Island", the saying goes. it means all of us need friends to survive and live happily.Humans are that dependent to the people around her, she always want to have somebody to lean on and gets moral support from them. We now involve ourselves in a relationship called Friendship, where we can gather emotional supports from different individuals we call friends. Friendship is a relationship between individuals who give sympathy to each other. A Friend is someone who gives you  concern, helping you out in times of trouble, cries with you in when you felt like crying, laughs with you when your happy and cheerful. But the case is not always like that, sometimes your friend is not that perfect as mentioned above. They are also human created by God with imperfections, Friends are people you can't always trust because we can always expect them to commit mistakes even if we consider them as our best friend.


  Your friends are not that trustworthy always. Take for instance, you told your friend who your crush is and told her not to tell to anyone as it will be a shame on you. She said, "Don't worry, your secret is safe with me". You trusted her that she will not spread your secret, but few days after, you'll discover that your secret leaked out, out of curiosity you investigated who spread it. You were shocked when you found out that your friend spread your secret. But what is frightening is when you invited your friend into your house for a birthday party. You let her in your room and then left her because you needed to go to the comfort room. When the party was over , she bade goodbye and so you went to your room to sleep listening to a slow rock music. But you just can't find your I-phone. You searched for it everywhere but you just cant find it. You then realize that your friend took it. Isn't it sad to give your trust to someone and then betrayed.

  You might say that it is not true, that you can always trust your friends because it depends on the person whom you will consider as friend and give her your trust but, Isn't it true that whoever and whatever your friend is, it will not change the fact that they are also humans capable to be mistaken because they are still humans?

  Indeed, your friends are people you can't always trust because nobody is perfect. So even your nicest friends can sometimes be rude and harsh to you. You should expect the unexpected and be prepared when that time will come. It is just right to belong in a certain group of people whom you called friends but remember that we are born without them and you can't be with them after death. so don't give full sympathy, love and devotion to your friends, especially trust because your friends are your worst enemies...


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